I cried when my wife confirmed divorce was her answer. As if to console me she offered “I never said it would be easy, I only said it would be worth it.” While that maxim, falsely attributed to Jesus, felt so inappropriate at the time, it has proven prophetic. But, it should read more like: No one who’s divorced will tell you it’s easy, but you, and only you, can choose to make it worth it. Choose well, and it may just be the opportunity of a lifetime.